People and Attitude

This is my first blog.
Honestly I'm not a writer, so maybe you will find some of strange sentence in my blog ^_^
Today I'd like to write about People and their attitude.
I live in California. There are so many culture in this state.
You'll find so many kind person with their personality or attitude.
First time when I arrived to this Country which is USA, I felt like everybody are friendly.
The city that I lived was so nice. Everybody respect each other.
And one day, I had to work in one company where was my first office job in USA, I met a lot of strange personality and attitude.
I still remember, First day when I came to work, everybody kind of didn't care to me.
I had no clue with whatever i did. Nobody told me how to do my job.
I just did whatever they asked for, kind of assistant for everybody ^_^ I still cool hehehe....
One of my coworker, I call her K. K is the one who told me what to do, so I did everything that she said so. hmmm ....
But lately she become bossy.
Man.... She asked me to do anything without say "please".
I still didn't get that she become bossy. I thought I was a new employee until the other coworker, I call him KC said " Hey, you're so passion."
This sentence made me think, because I wasn't hehehe....
And He told me lately that K had use me as her servant. She used to do that to everybody until I came to join them at this office. And what was the worst thing?
Not only KC told me that but almost the whole office. ^_^
Wasn't I look stupid? Didn't know that for 4 month. hahaha It's Ok.

K attitude make anybody uncomfortable. Nobody could work with her as a team. hmmm maybe only J can work with her ^_^ (I will write about J after this :D)
Change her attitude is not easy. I tried to be nice to her, but she still didn't get it.
There was a story about K.

J was my coworker in the same company where K works.
no wonder K and J can work together. They have almost the same character.
The difference only J works at Warehouse. Ofcourse everybody will ask him to get something from the rack at warehouse. Pretty much he have to do whatever we ask for.
But this guy doesn't do anything proplerly. One afternoon, I had a box which was empty and I didn't need it anymore. I'd like to throw it away, but I didn't know where should I put that box.
I was new in that company, so I asked J manager who was A at that time. and A told me " Just put near by warehouse back door, I will throw them away."
And I did put the box at the place that A point to, then I walked back to the office, the place where I suppose to be at hehehhee....
Before lunch somebody form the office told me that J called me.
I walked to Warehouse to find J. J was there and I asked him what happend.
He said " Hey, don't put the box over there, get and throw it in the trash box out there!"
with high voice kind of yelling to me.
I wouldn't feel anything if I didn't see there was a lot of boxes that J had to trash.
Why only one he made it as a problem. That wasn't the only one story about box.
The other day the same problem, because of empty box also.
but this time K "the mean girl" took one of empty box from the office to warehouse.
I saw it. After a while J called me and asked about that box.
Huh, he thought that I still put the empty box there. I told him that K put it there.
I wouldn't put any box there anymore, I knew that J won't like it. So J asked K that she put the box there or not to make sure that I didn't lie to him.
Can you imagine ? It only box. He made it big problem. And "the best part" was K said it wasn't her put the box there. And J asked me to take that box away from him "NOW".

What attitude is that? No nice way to say or what?
I'm not a perfect person, but this is make me think that I have to be nice and try to find a nice word or nice way to talk and to do something to anybody in this world.
Bad attitude is not easy to change but we need to learn how to change it become positive.

Thanks to read my first blog. Have a nice day.